Re-Writing Your Story

Here is an uncomfortable truth:

It’s Always Easier To Be The VICTIM Than The HERO In Any Story.
Why? Being a HERO requires GROWTH! At least that’s what I learnt on my journey.

FACT: Life Is Your Own Creation!
It’s an ever-evolving movie where the story is being written as you go along - by YOU! In the movie of your life, you are the producer, the director and the main character…  but you are also the script writer, which means that you can change the storyline anytime you want! That’s how much power you have and you don’t even realise it (thanks to Dolores Cannon for this beautiful analogy).

So, if your life was a movie with you as the main character…and a large audience was watching it, what would the audience be SCREAMING at you to do right now? It will be something blindingly obvious. So, reflecting on the fact that you are the main character (The HERO) and have the opportunity to craft the most EPIC STORY… what do you need to do RIGHT NOW and why don’t you!?

Who or What Is Stopping You? It Will Most Likely Be YOU!  

Am I Right? Look, you are not alone.  I know what it feels like to be scared, stuck, frustrated and powerless… clinging to familiar comforts for dear life. I really do - I spent decades doing that! So trust me when I say this: staying there for too long is an active act of self sabotage! Here is the inconvenient truth about your comfort zone: it’s a wonderful place but nothing ever grows there, you included!

The Comfort Zone Is Where Your Dreams & Potential Go To Die!

Ultimately, it’s where you fail because when you live in your comfort zone, you only do what’s familiar + easy. That’s what makes it the single biggest ENEMY to your success, your growth but also your healing because let’s face it, there is nothing comfortable (or easy) about the healing journey… or living authentically!  

The comfort zone is where we hide, resist, numb or distract ourselves from what’s really going on underneath the surface. It’s where we run from what is begging to be acknowledged, released and healed... like your feelings, your pain, your fears. Irrespective of what you do or don’t do - they are still there (and always will be) - waiting, calling your name… crying for your attention.

So, When You Next Find Yourself At The Crossroads…

… between the safe + familiar vs the scary + unknown - PAUSE - and do something different,  choose differently. Instead of asking why this, why me, stop resisting, let go of control and respond consciously rather than react based on old patterns. It will be uncomfortable, painful even but remember:

The Pain Of Change Is Only Temporary Whereas Regret Is Forever!  

Everything in your life will change when you stop running from (or numbing) what is asking to be felt. So, let it COME, let it HURT… and let it HEAL. There is no way round, the only way is through! One thing is for sure:

Your New Life Is Going To Cost You The Old One...

It’s going to cost you your comfort zone, being liked and understood… BUT it doesn’t matter because the people who are meant for you will meet you on the other side. You will build a new comfort zone around the things that truly matter. Instead of being understood, you will be SEEN ... and instead of being liked, you will be LOVED + respected for WHO YOU TRULY ARE... without the masks. So, if you think the price of winning (over yourself) is too high, wait until you get the bill for regret…that bill is GENERATIONAL!

The Magic You Are Looking For Is Always In What You Are Avoiding!

The treasure + freedom you seek can only be found in the uncomfortable, in the unknown.  So, if you find yourself stuck in the old patterns, with limiting beliefs that don’t serve you, supressing what needs to be felt, re-playing the same old story, which re-creates the same experiences… could it be time to re-write the narrative? According to Joe Dispenza, UNCHALLENGED limiting BELIEFS  are the reason why people aren’t living the life they want… they stay too attached to their story…and it ends up running their life!  The good news?

You Are Not Your Limiting Beliefs, Negative Thoughts Or Emotions!

You are just the OBSERVER that experience them and the more you can connect with the observer, the easier it is to recognise + release those that don’t serve you. So, the 1^st thing you have to do if you want to transform is to LET GO of the OLD STORY (or you will end up re-living it your entire life!). The more you tell your story, the more you re-enforce it! Did you know that? So,

Challenge The Story About WHO You Are And WHAT Happened To You…

… because your perspective can create 2 completely different lives. When you BECOME  INTENTIONAL about who you are, what you want + your every choice reflects that, there will be no limits to what you can create. So, decide who you are and BE it, keep the promises you make to yourself because your IDENTITY is the controlling force behind your results. Remember: you have nothing in this life to conquer, challenge or transcend… apart from your MIND. If you don’t control it, someone else will!

The 2^nd thing you have to do is to CHANGE what you think, feel and do… because nothing will change until YOU do! In order to write a new your story, live authentically and experience real freedom, you have to NOT ONLY elevate your mindset… you have to HEAL the hurting parts of you, too! Here is why:

Your Feelings Are Important, They Are The Messages From Your Soul…

… and each one contains a lesson or a gift… and it’s up to you to find it! Please hear me when I say this: Whatever happened, you are NOT BROKEN! Many people wear their trauma like some badge of honour but that’s an act of self-sabotage! Please don’t make what happened your identity. While the wound may not be your fault, the healing is your responsibility!

TRUTH: Time Does Not Heal Anything!   
You have to do the healing because only YOU can set yourself free! You can’t go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are now and change the ending. So get ready to be uncomfortable because: 

 No-One Is Coming To Save You… Or Are They!? YES, They Are!  

It’s The Healed Version Of You That’s Coming To Save You… And Bring You Back Home.

The good news!? You don’t have to do this alone. I’ve got you. Never underestimate the importance of having a support system around you, just like the people you admire. You too deserve someone in your life who says, you’ve got this, someone who helps you unlock your greatness & courage to do things that you otherwise wouldn’t do.

Your NEW STORY Is Waiting To Be Written…

… and ONLY YOU can pick up the pen and start writing.

I can be by your side every step of the way as you awaken The Healer & Hero within.  

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 Love, Alena x